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Embracing the Unexpected: When "Mistakes" Become Sacred Gifts

In the sacred dance of life, there are no mistakes—only doorways.

How often have you found yourself stepping into an experience, guided by intention and focus, only to stumble upon something that feels out of place, unintended, or even wrong? Perhaps you feel frustration or disappointment, labeling it as a misstep or failure. But what if I told you that these moments of divergence, these so-called "mistakes," are profound invitations? What if they are messengers from the universe, whispering, "Pay attention; there is more here than meets the eye."



As a shaman, I’ve learned to honor the unexpected. When something unfolds in a way I didn’t anticipate, I don’t rush to dismiss it. Instead, I sit with it. I hold it as sacred. I ask myself: Why did this happen this way? What is this moment revealing that I might have overlooked? This act of curiosity transforms the energy of the experience. It shifts me from resistance into wonder.

Every "mistake" is an opening. It’s an opportunity to explore a new layer of your being, a hidden aspect of your process, or an unseen belief that might be ready for healing. Perhaps the frustration you feel points to a deeper wound, or the unexpected turn reveals a skill you didn’t know you had. These moments are like unpolished gems, waiting for you to uncover their brilliance.

The Sacred Art of Sitting with "Mistakes"

When you encounter what feels like a misstep, pause. Stay with it. Let it speak to you. Ask:

  • What am I being shown here?

  • How does this challenge my expectations or beliefs?

  • What new door is opening for me through this experience?

Trust that nothing is ever out of place in the grand design of your journey. Even the most unexpected or inconvenient events carry medicine—wisdom that might not make sense in the moment but will serve you beautifully down the road.

Think of it like weaving a tapestry. Each thread has its purpose, even if it seems tangled or out of alignment at first. Later, when you step back and see the bigger picture, you realize how essential those threads were to the integrity and beauty of the whole.

Walking Through the Door

When you approach life this way, you’re not just living—you’re co-creating with the universe. You’re honoring the sacred partnership between intention and mystery, between what you seek and what seeks you. By staying open, curious, and receptive, you allow the unexpected to guide you to places you couldn’t have reached on your own.

So, the next time life presents you with a moment that feels like a mistake, remember: this is a doorway. Step through it. Stay a while. Let the energy of the unexpected reveal its gifts. And trust that everything you encounter is part of your sacred path, shaping you into the luminous being you are becoming.

From the heart of the Andes to wherever you are, I send you blessings on your journey. May you find joy in the surprises, courage in the challenges, and wisdom in the mysteries that unfold along the way.

With love and light,

Fabiola



1 Comment


dflash71
Jan 29

Thank you, what a great article

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